What Other Dads Say

As a Coach with Boot Camp for New Dads for over 15 years, 

Schuyler (sky lur) has helped prepare over 15,000 dads-to-be. 

These fold-out guidebooks below pass on myriad insights he's gained.

Open them up: they're designed to help you prepare as a team.

Dads on Breastfeeding and Volleball

What experts say about this guidebook

Other Offerings Coming Soon

Keeping Your Lives After the Baby Arrives: Your Post-Birth Plan

Coming SOON (by 11/1/2020): How do new dads and moms bring the baby into their life, instead of the other way around?

...How does mom keep her spot on her bowling team?

...How does dad keep up with his favorite HBO series?

...How do mom and dad keep up the snowboarding, and save money at the same time?

...Covid-19 can pose anxiety-elevating challenges. But it can also be leveraged by brand-new families to their advantage.

Fourth Trimester Fathering

Coming SOON: New dads face many artful questions, which they will answer uniquely on their family's behalf depending on their distinct circumstances: 

...How do dad's instincts with the baby differ from mom's even in the Fourth Trimester?

...What hormone changes is dad going through, and how do they impact him?

...How does dad do work/life balance? (Hint: start by calling it life/work balance).

...How to manage family, including that particular mother or mother-in-law?

...How to use paid time off strategically?

...How to navigate mom going back to work?

...I'm going to be an at-home dad. Um, how?

About Fourth Trimester Fathering publications

What Other Dads Say guidebooks are folded broadsheets constructed to facilitate conversation. Open them up, read through them together, discuss, ponder, make notes, highlight, stick them on the fridge. 

About Boot Camp for New Dads

Boot Camp for New Dads® (aka Daddy Boot Camp®) is a unique father-to-father, community-based workshop that inspires and equips men of different economic levels, ages and cultures to become confidently engaged with their infants, support their mates and personally navigate their transformation into dads.

Boot Camp is validated by research and has been named a best practice by many organizations that consider it an exceptional means of supporting dads-to-be and fostering behaviors that greatly benefit children and help prevent a wide range of social ills. Founded in 1990, the non-profit Boot Camp for New Dads has graduated more than 325,000 men, making it by far the nation’s largest program for new fathers, and is now offered in 44 states, on U.S. military bases, Canada and the U.K.

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Studies show the best predictor of breastfeeding success and duration is partner support. Schuyler Totman has synthesized the absolute best ways for dads to be the best support possible in this comprehensive guide.

Laurel Wilson, IBCLC, RLC, CLE, CCCE, CLD Speaker and Author The Greatest Pregnancy Ever – Keys to the Mother Baby Bond The Attachment Pregnancy – The Ultimate Guide to Bonding with Your Baby

Great quick reference guide on how to support mom during those busy first weeks when baby comes home!

Jennifer Harned Adams, PhD – Director, Colorado Chapter of Postpartum Support International – Clinical Health Psychologist – Center for Maternal Fetal Health

A must-read,

must-discuss,

must-glance-at-later

for all expectant dads.

Jon Ekstrom Host – Jon of All Trades Podcast Coach – Boot Camp for New Dads Veteran Dad (with both kids)